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Friday Feb 06, 2026
Friday Feb 06, 2026
Welcome to my series of mini-episodes that I call Matt’s Musings. These episodes will be short, focused, and center on tips and tricks relating to human sexuality that I think are important for all of us to know and understand. And hey, you now get to hear me more often? What a treat!
Today, we are going to be exploring why you need to stop waiting to talk about sex and just do it!
New full-length episodes dropping every week! “Matt’s Musings” episodes dropping every other week!
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Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
In this episode, we get real about why so many people aren’t having sex and why that doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you or your relationship. I break down five common reasons intimacy fades, including lack of communication, avoiding vulnerability, unspoken resentment, waiting to feel “in the mood,” and simply not prioritizing connection. This episode is honest, validating, and grounded in what I see every day as a sex and relationship therapist, with the goal of helping you better understand what’s actually getting in the way of desire and how to start rebuilding intimacy.
New episodes drop weekly!
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Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
Tuesday Jan 27, 2026
We are back! We are motivated! We are talking about Heated Rivalry! In this episode:
- I will talk about my obsession with Heated Rivalry.
- Explore why representation matters for athletes and queer folx.
- Explore the sex, duh!
- Explain why this kind of content resonates with women.
New episodes drop weekly!
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You can now watch the full video podcast on YouTube!
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Monday Aug 26, 2024
Monday Aug 26, 2024
I wanted to talk a little bit about polyamory today specifically, why you don’t have to be afraid of it. We poly folx are not here to get you and turn your partners into poly monsters who crave multiple partners. Lol. Today I wanted to focus on a few reasons why people don't need to fear this perfectly health relationship style.
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Website: www.clevelandsextherapy.com
Instagram: @clevelandsextherapy
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@clevelandsextherapy
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Monday Aug 19, 2024
Monday Aug 19, 2024
Emily Nagoski created an amazing analogy to describe how we learn our sexuality.
Website and Socials below:
Website: www.clevelandsextherapy.com
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Monday Aug 12, 2024
Monday Aug 12, 2024
Today I wanted to talk about some of my favorite quotes from prolific sex therapists, educators, and researchers. So let’s dive in!
You are not promised time you are promised change
- Emily Nagoski
Emotional intimacy kills passion
- Chris Donaghue
Consent changes from moment to moment.
- Matt Lachman
Sexual creativity is blocked by social conditioning.
- Melissa Walker
Vulnerability is having the courage to show up when you do not know the outcome.
- Brene brown
Our partner's sexuality does not belong to us.
- Ester Perel
Anything that takes place between two or more consenting adults is their business
- Various
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Website: www.clevelandsextherapy.com
Instagram: @clevelandsextherapy
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@clevelandsextherapy
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Monday Aug 05, 2024
Monday Aug 05, 2024
It is really exciting to be back and providing the sex positive content that we all need. I am going to be doing things a little bit differently this time. These first few episodes will be coming straight from my Patreon. They are early access videos for my patrons turned into podcast episodes. After the first three or so, which I have already recorded, the episodes will be slightly more raw and unedited. I want you all to experience how my brain works on these specific topics so instead of spending hours and hours editing, I figured I would just speak truly and authentically from the heart. So here we go!
Today’s topic is a quick one. My top five tips as a sex therapist. What do I tell all my clients.The bread and butter of sex therapy.
Website and Socials below:
Website: www.clevelandsextherapy.com
Instagram: @clevelandsextherapy
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@clevelandsextherapy
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/clevelandsextherapy
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Monday Oct 18, 2021
Monday Oct 18, 2021
And here we go again...
I am so happy to be back and providing sex-positive content for all of you wonderful listeners. In this return episode, I thought I would demystify some popular myths regarding intimacy and sexuality. Enjoy!
Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @ClevelandSexTherapy and check out my website, www.ClevelandSexTherapy.com for more content and information!
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Monday Mar 23, 2020
Monday Mar 23, 2020
Hello Everything! I thought with all the talk of COVID-19, I would dedicate an episode to it! In this episode, I spend some time talking about what to do and not do when it comes to physical intimacy and sexuality, as well as general self-care strategies we can all incorporate!
Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and look at my website, www.ClevelandSexTherapy.com for more information!
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Friday Feb 07, 2020
Friday Feb 07, 2020
And we are back! This episode I talk about one of my favorite topics in the field of sex and relationship research, Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM). I explore the use of terms like "traditional" and "non-traditional" when we describe relationships, different forms of CNM, and finally barriers to the practice!
Also, stay tuned, as I will have my first interview coming in the next few weeks!
Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @Sex_HereAndNowPod and look at my website, www.ClevelandSexTherapy.com for more information!
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